Quiz
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1. Have you ever felt bad about
yourself because of what your partner has said to you?
2. Have you ever been afraid of your partner by the looks or
actions s/he displays?
3. Has your partner ever threatened to leave you and made you
feel responsible?
4. Is your partner the one who makes the decisions in your
relationship?
5. Do you ever feel you are blamed for what goes on in your
relationship?
6. Have you ever felt that you have been prevented from talking
to people, reading certain things, or going places?
7. Does your partner get jealous when you spend time with family
or friends?
8. Does your partner insult your racial, ethnic, cultural,
religious, or class background?
9. Does your partner threaten to reveal your sexual identity
to your family, work, or faith community?
10. Has your partner ever minimized or denied thing that s/he
has done to you?
11. Does your partner make you perform sexual acts you don't
enjoy (against your will)?
12. Are you frequently embarrassed because your partner makes
fun of you in front of other people?
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How does your relationship feel?
1.
Are you and your partner willing to compromise?
2. Are you entitled to your own opinions in your relationships
and not judged on them?
3. Do you feel supported and respected in your relationship?
4. Is sex consensual and respected?
5. Is it OK to refuse to have sex with your partner?
6. Can you trust your partner and can s/he trust you in your
relationship?
7. Do you and your partner communicate openly and truthfully?
8. Do you and your partner take responsibility for each ones
actions?
9. Is there a balance of giving and receiving in your relationship?
10. Do you feel safe and comfortable with your partner?
11. Are you able to laugh and have fun together?
12. Are you able to spend time with friends and family and do
activities you enjoy?
13. Is your partner supportive of your decisions, including financial,
educational, career and others?
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